01Begin with a trace
You do not need to begin at the beginning, remember everything, or call yourself a writer. A legacy often first appears as a trace: a photograph you continue returning to, an object you cannot discard, a place that still lives inside you, or a memory whose meaning has changed with time.
02You may have arrived here because…
Something in your life is asking for attention.
- You want to preserve your story but feel unsure where to begin.
- You have memories and materials but cannot yet see how they connect.
- You want your family to understand something important about your life.
- A change, loss, birthday, illness, or discovery has made the work feel more urgent.
- You sense that something meaningful could disappear if you do not begin now.
03What the journal helps make possible
The journal provides enough structure to help you move forward without forcing your life into a rigid chronology. It helps you notice meaningful experiences, relationships, places, objects, values, and turning points—and begin recognizing why certain stories continue asking for your attention. The deeper questions, exercises, and seven-step discovery process remain inside the workbook.
04This remains your story
You decide what to explore, what to keep private, what to share, and how quickly to proceed. The journal does not tell you what your life means. It helps you create the conditions in which meaning can become visible.
05Use the journal in a way that fits your life
There is no single correct way to complete this journal. Go at your own pace. Answer what speaks to you and skip what does not. Return when another memory, question, or connection appears. You may write your answers, type them, speak them into a recorder, or ask someone you trust to help capture your words. You do not have to be a writer, and you do not have to complete every page. The purpose is not to finish a large assignment. It is to create a practice of noticing, gathering, and preserving—one manageable piece at a time.
06When a specific piece needs help
The journal can be completed independently. A Guided Legacy Working Session is available when you want focused help beginning, recognizing connections, moving through a particular passage, or deciding how to carry a discovery forward.
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